Clearer Understanding, Effective Communication, Enhanced Relationships

Discern and understand your unique personality genius 
Discover how to appreciate and connect with other personalities
Kyle is a certified and accredited Personality Hacker Profiler and a life/relationship coach, using a personality development model based on Jungian cognitive functions: each of us has a different combination (& preference order) of tools the brain uses to perceive the world and a specific set of criteria that we use to make decisions based on that perceived data. It is similar to Myers-Briggs, which may sound familiar, but digs deeper below the surface and provides a pathway to help us integrate our introverted & extraverted, thinking & feeling, and intuitive & sensing sides of our personalities in a way that uniquely suits each individual. It may also help you understand recurring triggers and conflicts, and provide guidance on how to bring your best to the world and to your relationships.

Kyle's passion is to help couples and families understand each other better through this process: by understanding and giving space for your loved ones (who are often quite different from you!), you will gain a new appreciation of their unique strengths (and how they may help you cover your own blind spots). Kyle's positive and possibilities-focused approach can help you discover grace for their weaknesses and help you communicate clearly to meet each others' needs, and reduce misunderstandings. It may also allow you to connect with them on new levels and help them achieve their potential, too! 

Conversational Profiling: Beyond the Surface

Leave behind generic & static tests that only look at surface behaviours; conversational profiling helps get past social and cultural influences, expectations and biases; identify your underlying balance between cognitive functions - revealing how you naturally perceive the world and make your best decisions. Understanding your best fit type helps you understand why these parts of your life are dynamic and complex, and enables you to make wiser decisions, leveraging the most sophisticated areas of your brain. It's not about "the 3 best jobs for your personality" or putting you in a box - it's about how you can bring your best to any job or relationship, and consciously use your personality superpowers!​

Understand Your

Personal Approach
Personality Profiling is the first step. Using Personality Hacker's growth-based approach to Myers-Briggs cognitive function profiling, the goal is to connect and understand how your brain uniquely processes the world. We'll discuss the underlying mechanics of how you uniquely perceive the world, how you make your best decisions and integrate your inner and outer worlds.  Find out how to develop your unique personality genius and bring your best to the world.

Enhance Your

Relationships
Relationships can be hard, and so many conflicts arise from miscommunications and misunderstandings. Relationship Profiling provides a fresh appreciation for each other - discover language to describe the gifts that you each bring, and why you fit together so well. We'll unpack your Synergies, Challenges, and Triggers; after two individual profiling conversations, we'll have a joint explanation session including practical steps to take your relationship to the next level.

Realize Your

Family Potential
As parents, we often see our children through the filter of our own personalities. If they're similar to us, we may make assumptions or project our issues onto them. If they use different functions than us, they may feel ostracized, "a black sheep", or we may feel helpless to connect and understand their perspective. I'll guide you through complex family dynamics and provide useful insights into how you can help each individual thrive, and how to work together as a team.

What to Expect:

1. Fill out the Contact Us form, check the "Personality Profiling" box and tell me about your context
2. We'll schedule a time via email for our initial Zoom call, and payment details (PayPal or Interac E-transfer) will be provided.

An individual personality profile begins with a guided conversation on Zoom that typically lasts 70-90 minutes. The conversation content is generated by your interests, experiences and passions; it's guided by my personable and validating approach. I seek to listen and understand, discovering patterns around your personal logic, priorities, and viewpoints.

We'll schedule a 40-60 minute follow-up session for a few days later (to provide time for thoughtful evaluation) for a final verification and explanation of type. Each session is recorded for quality assurance and for your future reference; I also provide descriptions of your best-fit type's cognitive functions, and links to further resources specific to you.

This is a very thorough process, but an enjoyable one. Quick and efficient approaches may possibly get "the right answer", but miss out on the incredible value of the journey towards self-discovery and awareness. Personal development is not about "getting a 4-letter code that tells you who you are" (far from it); it is discovering the tools your brain uses best, and awareness on how to leverage those tools for abundant life.

People with constructive outcomes typically:

  • Are those oriented towards growth and development
  • Are open to exploring new possibilities of personality type and are willing to experience some disorientation if they've researched type already: many of us mistype due to not being stereotypical, or we latch onto surface descriptions of a different type that we've come across online. 
  • Are able to tolerate 60-90 minute conversations on Zoom, and share openly and authentically, in an environment without undue distractions or interruptions.
  • Have a desire to understand others as well, and use this knowledge to help their relationships grow
  • Are couples with good intentions towards their partner and an interest in improving the relationship
  • Are single, and want to become secure in their own identity and gifts to avoid unhealthy external relationships

People with constructive outcomes typically are not:

  • Couples who want to "fix" each other (who aren't interested in mutual improvement), or who are in a harmfully abusive relationship (who need a trauma counsellor)
  • Currently struggling with severe/debilitating depression, anxiety, or unprocessed trauma (they should seek psychiatric or medical help first: wait until acute issues are under control)
  • Expecting to have a "correct type diagnosis" solve all of their challenges (it's a very useful slice of one's identity, but people are more than just their type)
  • Consciously/subconsciously trying to validate a pre-conceived type guess, or trying to "be an enigma" who cannot be identified (some people have unique context, or unusual combination of M-B + Enneagram, or trauma; but those who don't want to be known won't find constructive results)
  • Inclined to be easily swayed by memes, stereotypes, or opinion from family/friends/online sources who are not professionally trained in typology (Trust the experts who have hundreds of hours of training and experience)
  • Dismissive, unwilling to see new possibilities, or disappointed by an unexpected best-fit type conclusion (every type and type combination has amazing possibilities and leverage points!)

Pricing:

Relationship Coaching Packages
Couples Package: $295
(2x Individual Interviews, Joint Followup, incl. SCT Report discussion)
Families: $150 base + $80/person
(Interview/Follow-up with each one, joint Family Mapping Discussion)
Individual Profiling & Coaching​
Basic Profiling: $150 
(Interview + Follow-u​p Sessions)
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Follow-up Coaching: $60/hr (if you'd like to dig deeper and discuss how to leverage your unique strengths in daily life)