Clearer Understanding, Effective Communication, Enhanced Relationships:

Learn to love yourself and others, and leverage your unique personality for abundant life
Kyle is a certified and accredited Personality Hacker Profiler and a life/relationship coach, using a personality development model based on Jungian cognitive functions: each of us has a unique relationship with the tools (functions) the brain uses to perceive the world and make decisions, which Myers-Briggs described as type. Kyle's coaching provides a pathway to help integrate your introverted & extraverted, thinking & feeling, and intuitive & sensing parts of your personality in a way that uniquely suits you. It may also help you understand recurring triggers and conflicts, and provide guidance on how to bring your best to the world and to your relationships.

Kyle's positive and possibilities-focused approach can help you discover grace for weaknesses, appreciation for strengths, and understand how and why we get into conflicts. The end goal is to learn to love yourself for who you are, love others who are different, and then grow in your character and relationships.

Conversational Profiling: Beyond the Surface

Leave behind generic & static tests that only look at surface behaviours or words. Conversational profiling helps look beyond social and cultural influences, expectations and biases; identifying your unique relationships to your cognitive functions - revealing how you naturally perceive the world and make your best decisions. Understanding your best fit type helps you understand why these parts of your life are dynamic and complex, and enables you to make wiser decisions, leveraging the most sophisticated areas of your brain. It's not about finding "the 3 stereotypical jobs for your personality" or putting you in a box - it's about how you can bring your best to any job or relationship, and consciously use your personality superpowers!​

People with constructive outcomes typically:

  • Are those oriented towards growth and development
  • Are open to exploring new possibilities of personality type and are willing to experience some disorientation if they've researched type already: many of us mistype due to not being stereotypical, or we latch onto surface descriptions of a different type that we've come across online. 
  • Are able to tolerate 60-90 minute conversations on Zoom, and share openly and authentically, in an environment without undue distractions or interruptions.
  • Have a desire to understand others as well, and use this knowledge to help their relationships grow
  • Are couples with good intentions towards their partner and an interest in improving the relationship
  • Are single, and want to become secure in their own identity and gifts to avoid unhealthy external relationships

People with constructive outcomes typically are not:

  • Couples who want to "fix" each other (who aren't interested in mutual improvement), or who are in a harmfully abusive relationship (who need a trauma counsellor)
  • Currently struggling with severe/debilitating depression, anxiety, or unprocessed trauma (they should seek psychiatric or medical help first: wait until acute issues are under control)
  • Expecting to have a "correct type diagnosis" solve all of their challenges (it's a very useful slice of one's identity, but people are more than just their type)
  • Consciously/subconsciously trying to validate a pre-conceived type guess, or trying to "be an enigma" who cannot be identified (some people have unique context, or unusual combination of M-B + Enneagram, or trauma; but those who don't want to be known won't find constructive results)
  • Inclined to be easily swayed by memes, stereotypes, or opinion from family/friends/online sources who are not professionally trained in typology (Trust the experts who have hundreds of hours of training and experience)
  • Dismissive, unwilling to see new possibilities, or disappointed by an unexpected best-fit type conclusion (every type and type combination has amazing possibilities and leverage points!)

What to Expect:

1. Fill out the Contact Us form, check the "Personality Profiling" box and tell me about your context
2. We'll schedule a time via Calendly for our initial Zoom call, and payment details: PayPal (US/international) or Interac E-transfer (Canada) will be provided.
3. We'll schedule follow-up sessions after the initial session using Calendly.

Each session is recorded for quality assurance, and may be used for educational purposes (I'll ask for express permission first). I also provide descriptions of your best-fit type's cognitive functions, and links to further resources specific to you.

This is a very thorough process, but an enjoyable one. Quick and efficient approaches may possibly get "the right answer", but miss out on the incredible value of the journey towards self-discovery and awareness. Personal development is not about "getting a 4-letter code that tells you who you are" (far from it); it is discovering the tools your brain uses best, and awareness on how to leverage those tools for abundant life.

Pricing:

Individual Profiling & Coaching​
Individual Starter Package: $235 (3.5+ hours)
*90 minute Initial interview
*60+ minute Verification Session
*60+ minute Personal Growth Coaching 
*Includes a Personality Hacker Owner's Manual for your type ($67 USD value)
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Follow-up Coaching: $65/hr (to dig deeper and discuss how to leverage your unique strengths in daily life)
The Initial Interview is an enjoyable in-depth conversational interview, talking about what you love while I listen and gather data. Then we take a few days' break for processing.

The Verification session begins with some follow-up questions, and then we unpack your cognitive function stack, seeing where you resonate. Then I provide some follow-up links to helpful podcasts and a complimentary Owner's Manual for your type from Personality Hacker.

We'll take a 2-4 week break for you to contemplate and "live" your results, and the Personal Growth Coaching session ties up the package: talking about things that don't make sense (and how you might present differently than stereotypes), specific issues that may be connected to type (relationship, career, or personal growth guidance). I'll provide specific, tangible action points tailored specifically to your life situation.

Further Follow-up Coaching is available for tackling specific issues that arise that may be addressed with cognitive function development.​
Relationship Coaching Packages
Couples Package $395 (6+ hours)
*2x Individual Interviews
*2x Verification Sessions
*Couples Growth Coaching
*2x Personality Hacker Owners' Manuals ($134 USD)
*Personalized SCT Report 
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Families: $120 base + $100/member
*90 minute Individual Interview per member
*60+ minute Verification Session per member
*60+ minute Family Coaching

(Best for families with kids over the age of 12)
Relationships can be hard, and so many conflicts arise from miscommunications and misunderstandings. Relationship Profiling provides a fresh appreciation for each other - discover language to describe the gifts that you each bring, and ways to fit together. We'll unpack your Synergies, Challenges, and Triggers for couples; for full families, I can create a family map of how your personalities intersect. The parent/child dynamic can be tricky - we often project ourselves onto our kids, and even if we're similar types, it can be helpful to see how help each individual thrive, and how to work together as a harmonious team.

The process is similar to the Individual Package, but multiplied for each one. The Coaching is specifically geared towards combined understanding and growth - for young families, it may be beneficial to just have the parents at the final coaching session, but for families with older children everyone may benefit from listening in.